"marriage is a product of patriarchy"
"so youre saying i'm not allowed to have marriage with the person i love and everyone who are married should divorce? ๐"
indonesians and their pancake and waffles behavior ๐ญ
Masalahnya justru di propaganda 'empowering' itu kak. Kenapa sih sampe ada yang merasa makeup dan fit in to some beauty standards itu empowering?? Apakah karena kalau tidak make up, pakai skincare dam bodycare itu tidak empowering? Gak pd? Kenapa bisa gak pd with our bareface???
another question that infuriates me is โwhen are you getting married?" or โhow is it possible that someone as pretty as you doesn't have a boyfriend?" as if the goal in life has always been to get married and find the one, life is so much more than that!!!
reading all these discussions about patriarchy reminds me of how i used to wonder why some girls are so focused on finding a bf & i think a lot of it is socially constructed cus growing up weโre asked, โhave you found a bf yet?" as if that's the measure of a woman's success.
as a kid growing up in javanese culture tiap ngeliat tradisi di pernikahan where the bride should wash up her husband foot it always itching me out??? why is she acting like his maid in their supposed big happy day????