Relationships are really beautiful when you and your partner gel like best friends. You show up together, share inside jokes, talk openly, have fun and totally vibe like besties. They shouldn’t replace your actual friends, but it’s amazing when the dynamic isn't only romantic.
Nonsexual intimacy is such a lost art.
The eye contact, the gentle touch, deep convo, holding hands, mutual support, hugging, non sexual massages, cooking a meal together, shared experiences, cuddles, curiosity, silence feels warm.
I can go on and on about this.
Girls, please PICK THE GENTLE ONE. The kind one. The one who brings you peace. The protective one. The one who is sure of you. The one who respects you. The one who understands your silence.. The one who sees your heart without judgment. The one who holds your dreams with care.
if he brings out the child in you, you're dating a man. if he brings out the mother in you, you're dating a boy. if he brings out the inner man in you, you're dating a loser