That feeling you get from not liking back the most kindest guy you know would treat you right fr, like they literally everything you want in a guy but you just not attracted to them.
I heard a girl saying "If she has to ask for flowers she doesn't want them anymore" but that really goes for everything wether it be love, attention or appreciation, bc it's no longer coming from you it's coming from me. Every woman's love language is not having to ask for !!