Peace of mind is one of the clearest signs of a healthy relationship with others. If being close to someone constantly leaves you anxious, uncomfortable, or feeling the need to explain and justify yourself, then perhaps you’re in a place that is slowly draining your peace and exhausting your soul.
Nothing is worth exhausting yourself over. Ignore those who ignore you, care for those who care about you, and bid farewell in peace to those who have left your life.
normalize leaving people to avoid empathy burnout. yes, i love you, but i am tired of having to ask you to consider me, and i am tired of you not seeing where you went wrong.
Be a wealthy Muslim. Retire your parents. Fund someone’s Umrah trip. Build Masajid. Sponsor orphans. Fund Dawah. Wealth isn’t evil. Wealth is what will move the ummah forward.
Rich vs. wealthy
Rich people have high incomes, but they still follow orders and work for someone else.
Wealthy people make work optional and have complete control over their time.
𝗧𝗛𝗘 𝗦𝗘𝗖𝗥𝗘𝗧𝗦 𝗢𝗙 𝗖𝗥𝗜𝗦𝗧𝗜𝗔𝗡𝗢 𝗥𝗢𝗡𝗔𝗟𝗗𝗢'𝗦 𝗗𝗜𝗘𝗧 🇵🇹 revealed by Giorgio Barone, CR7's former private chef:
👏🏾 There you go, you got what to do to look like Cristiano Ronaldo.
❌No milk. No sugar. No flour. No pasta. No bread.
🔹 Breakfast: Avocado, coffee, and eggs.
🔹 Lunch: Vegetables, chicken, and fish.
🔹 Dinner: A lighter meal.
🔹 Night meal is generally fillet fish or meat with vegetables.
If you sleep with another man's wife, he will beat you and even kill you.
Not because of the woman,
But because you have encroached on his boundaries.
Men are territorial, and any threat to their territory is considered a scourge that should be neutralised.
Facts about men that don’t like birthdays:
- They are low maintenance
- They like being alone
- They’re used to making themselves happy
- They measure life in progress and not dates.
- They pour into others more than they receive.
- They don’t like drama.
How to Be a High-Class Man Who Commands Respect
1. Dress well.
2. Wear good perfume.
3. If you own a car, always wash it before going out. Stop driving dirty cars.
4. Own a personal clipper to keep your beard neatly trimmed, or visit the barbershop at least twice a month.
5. Wear a small gold necklace.
6. Stay calm. Never raise your voice.
7. Respect everyone, especially women.
8. Mind your own business.
9. Carry a face towel.
10. Wear dark sunglasses. They make you look sharp.
11. Never leave your wrists empty. Wear a wristwatch or a bracelet.
12. Talk less and smile more.
13. Speak the truth even when it's hard. Undiluted.
14. Respect those who're ahead of you and humble yourself to learn.
Above all, love God.
Silence is always the best option.
Because it signals emotional discipline and power. When you don’t react, argue, or chase validation, you show that you’re not controlled by the situation, you control yourself.
No matter the circumstances, deal with those around you with integrity.
Don’t lie.
Don’t hide.
Don’t manipulate.
Take responsibility for your emotional impact.
Clarity protects you from guilt, and honesty saves enormous energy that would otherwise be wasted on excuses and contradictions.
Dignity is not a choice… dignity is capital.
You're providing for your wife, and sometimes, she disrespects you.
Then imagine when you can no longer provide?
Especially when the kids are still young.
Your wife may not necessarily cheat on you because you can no longer provide.
But you'll never deny that you will not notice the silent but loud disrespect & lack of submission that you'll experience.
Some wives have more patience than others.
Some may be lean, and others may be fat.
But what is more important for you as a man, is that you hold on to God and ask him to show you mercy, and change your situation before the disrespect becomes loud and bold.
If you are banking on the hope that she will "love" you, just as you love her, you'll be shocked.
Women don't love men.
They are only in love with what you can provide for them.
And this is why I keep telling you young men that transactional relationships are unhealthy.
Women will always love money.
But how you dated her, molded her without money, would go a long way in saving your marriage, should the unfortunate happen to you.
And almost every man would witness downtimes in his finances.
It could be early in your marriage or late in your marriage.
If it happens late in your marriage, do not think that your wife would continue to remember all your years of sacrificing and providing for her, till forever.
At some point, she would run out of patience, and you would start to experience another side of her.
So, what do you do as a man, when things go south for you?
First, if you're jobless as a married man, stop sitting at home.
Go out to wherever to find something to do to bring little money.
Even if the money is not enough to provide for the needs of your wife and kids.
Walka for nothing better pass to sidon for nothing.
Second, swallow your pride, and do not turn down any job offers because you feel it's beneath you.
As long as the job is legitimate, it would keep your mind and soul hopeful and would make your wife see you as that man that believes in providing for his family, even if what you're providing is not enough.
Thirdly, accept that certain things wound change in the dynamics of your home. But as long as your wife has not crossed the red line, remain in your marriage and be a father to your kids.
If your wife wants to use her hands to ruin the marriage because you're no longer the major provider, let it be her decision.
Lastly, if your wife decides to support you without rubbing it on your face, learn to appreciate her, but always remind her that what she's doing for you is a debt.
Even if you may never be able pay the debt.
Like I said, everything that you would witness in your marriage when it comes to finances, depend on how you led your wife during your relationship days.
Because that's the foundation.
Provision is a man's shield, and his ego is his weapon.
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