@GoslingsLab@qtcinderella@sakurashymk@cinnabrit IMO it causes others to internalize your opinion rather than forming their own on her, but as you said, you’re free to post wtv you like. Also these guys are chronically online bc its apart of the job meaning they could easily see this. Just curious tho what makes you dislike her
@GoslingsLab@qtcinderella@sakurashymk@cinnabrit Fair enough. My point, however, is that in all 3 alleged relationships, they’re all mature adults. I’m sure that if a boundary was crossed, they would’ve talked through it privately. There’s no point in putting them on blast online because you or I feel violated or offended.
@KaneVeritas@BronsHoodi Fair enough. To me it reads more like banter or a joke, cuz I’m guessing she’s not going around insulting random babies. But if it didn’t land for you like it did for me, you’re more than entitled to feel that way
@5kuffyy Overall tho I think she’s at a weird crossroad where she as black person doesn’t want to go against her racial aversions, but also doesn’t wanna drop her friend over something she clearly didn’t mean to do. The best she can do is denounce and move on, which is what she did.
@5kuffyy “They hate each other” narrative (which has literally only been said by mizkif, who doesn’t like cinna) just doesn’t seem true. Plus both Cinna/bonnie have talked about how they weren’t close years ago, but have grown to like each other.
@5kuffyy It wouldn’t make sense for cinna were to give preferential treatment to male collabs over her literal roomate. She’d be shooting that relationship in the foot for no reason, despite them living tg. She’s called her a sister multiple times, which is why I also think the
@carvemeinu Like cinna kinda hit all the main pts: she denounces her saying it, she can’t up n move bc of the lease, and that she isn’t responsible, Bonnie is. But her actual response in saying these things was so poor that it rightfully upset ppl
@carvemeinu Correct me if wrong but the problem doesn’t even seem to be their intent, it’s just that they are so bad at articulating their thoughts that they dog an even deeper hole for themselves
@Vig1lance@OS2NOX 100% but I’m just speaking generally about why I think the majority of ppl have that rule tho. And the majority don’t ignore their whole career so yea, you’re right about the range. But most ignore it unless it’s relevant and comes up. The ones who always ignore lwk weird icl