I dont want a life partner who cheated, broke my heart & then we have to work to reconcile. Thatโs not what I desire. So many relationships are just thatโฆ I wanna brag differently knowing I didnโt have to go through all tht before my partner realizes he wants me & only me.
Hyper-independence is a trauma response where we: rarely or never ask for help, believe no one cares for us, and give up on making any connections at all because we believe eventually weโll be abandoned.
mental health is real. depression is real. ppl suffer in silence and most of the time it be the ones that try to make everyone happy around them that suffer the most. check on your friends and family.