olayinka

Alchemist

[olayinka @yeankah_]

There’s nothing God cannot do if you hope and trust in God.

[Sir Dickson @Wizarab10]

Valid.

Any reason you choose not to marry anybody is valid. It is your life.

I just don't want to see tears from anywhere when a man list his own reason for not committing to a woman.

[ilymjsyk @g4na_xo]

Women be trying to mold you into the perfect idiot

[Sir Dickson @Wizarab10]

The whole essence of love is to GIVE. The whole point of relationship is to GIVE, not to have entitlement.

It is the love you give that you deserve.

[Nandi 🤍💜🤍 @pallnandi]

Modern dating has a pattern nobody likes to admit. Modern women have endless standards for broke men, while rich men get everything and more for FREE.

[Idris @7signxx]

Is your Ghusl correct?

[Idris @7signxx]

Your debts will be paid off if you frequently say this Du'a, in sha Allah...

[Mr Sergio @samson_samsen]

Did you know that one of the most efficient ways of getting the best out of a woman, and out of a relationship with one, is by being nonchalant?

Whatever women generally agree to hate in men is often what you should be if you want the best from them.

The reason women say they hate nonchalant men is because nonchalance reminds them that they must be on their best behaviour around such men. And women do not want to be on their best behaviour. They want to lovey-dovey their way out of the consequences of their bad behaviour.

Nonchalant men provide no such emotional leverage. As the men do not care enough about her to even fear losing. And that automatically makes her dispensable. So she either has to come correct, maintain order, or leave.

Often, it is difficult for her to leave because of the trade-offs, because of what she stands to lose. So she will crash out, complain about your nonchalance, and attempt to get you emotionally attached, invested, and consumed, so that she can misbehave and get away with it.

Nonchalance is how you foster order in an otherwise chaotic species. It is how you maintain order and, consequently, receive effort in a relationship with a woman.

When you are nonchalant, you send a clear message that the relationship is not based on emotions alone, but on something more structural and stable - something that equally requires reasoning and orderliness from her to function.

However, you must know:
Women complaining about your nonchalance is not necessarily because they hate you, but because they love you and cannot guarantee how long they can remain well-behaved before they slip and risk losing you.

She fears losing you because, through your nonchalance, you have made it clear that you will pull the plug if she crosses lines she should not have crossed. And women, in their nature, cannot help but want to test boundaries.

If you are “chalant,” she senses emotional leverage over you.

And you know what that brings?

A woman's worst behaviour.

Goodluck. Or congratulations.

[𝕾𝖎𝖗 𝕮𝖍𝖗𝖎𝖘 @eagleseyeinc]

doubling your income is far more important than forcing someone to text you back. you’ve got things to do, stay focused.

[SB @seyedele]

Bro, you don later see say no be say your Popsie dey lazy abi?

[Omoye✨🫶 @omoyebraids]

2 people go dey relationship, 1 go dey work, the other jobless one go dey call herself “understanding”.

Understanding means seeing the struggle and deciding to be a helper, not just a patient consumer.

[Quam🎭 @Quamclips]

Chris Brown once said, “I don’t understand this sht sometimes. Girls want a man that all the other girls want, but then when they’re with the man, they get mad because all the girls want him. The fck?”

[YOM🗣️ @ThaBoyYom]

Majority of Nigerians came from average to poor homes

Where did we now learn our nonsense classism from ?

[Mohd Modey @sarkinnomaa]

BEST TIME FOR TAHAJJUD AND 10 GUIDES ON HOW TO PROPERLYOBSERVE IT. SAVE AND REPOST.

1: Wake up 40mins/1hr before fajr
2: Pray minimum of 2 raka'ahs
3: Recite the last 2 verses from surah Al baqra(amanar rasul)
4: Recite the 3 Quls(Ikhlas, Falaq, Nas)
5: Perform witr(1 raka'ah) after finishing your rounds of 2 or more raka'ahs.
6: Subhanallahi, Alhamdulillah, La'ilaha illallah, Allahu Akbar 33x
7: lahaula wala quwata illahbillah x100
8: Astagfirullah x100
9: Subhanallahi wabi handihi subhanallahil Azeem x100
10: Salatul Nabiy(as much as you can)

The best nights are Friday nights.
And ask Allah everything you want, mostly in your sujood. Because that's the closest you're to Allah.
With Ramadan now, the nights got even more special and scared.
Pray with calmness and focus. With the belief that Allah will answer your prayers.
May Allah answer all our prayers.

I share Islamic reminders every day. Follow me to not miss any update.

[Rubison @rubison_]

Men celebrate things they tried soo hard to achieve. Birthday is not one of them.

[Àgbà John Doe @jon_d_doe]

Protect whatever you're doing legitimately to feed yourself.

Place your value in your legitimate earnings & refuse to bow to any pressure to impress a woman.

And that includes your wife.

If she wants a better life at the expense of your integrity, tell her to go.

End.

[Wilberforce Theophilus @Eze_Wilberforce]

Whatever you do, don't open a bank account in your own name.

I didn't know this until my dad stopped me the day I got my first paycheck.

I'd done everything right. Got paid. Went to the bank, opened a savings account in my name, and deposited the whole thing.

My Boss looked at me and said, “You just put a target on your back.”

Then I had no idea what he meant.

He explained that the moment your money sits in your name, it's exposed.

Creditors can see it. Lawyers can find it. Anybody with a judgment against you can freeze it and take it completely legally.

So here's what he told me to do:

Step 1. Go to the IRS and apply for an EIN.

A tax ID number, but for a trust instead of a person.

Step 2. Select a revocable trust as your entity type. List yourself as both the grantor and trustee. It gives you full control of everything.

Step 3.

Take that EIN to any bank and open an account under that trust name, not yours.

The money is still yours. You spend it, move it, and invest it however you want. But on paper, it's not attached to you.

If someone sues you, they can't touch what they can't see.

This is the system intelligent billionaires have always used.

Own nothing on paper, control everything in reality.

[Ozedikus Nwanne @Ozedikus]

The moment it moves from appreciation to expectation, just stop whatever you’re doing for that person right there

[AKIN-MADE @bibzyCarter]

If she wants you, she won't let you chase.

You only chase things that are running away from you.