i don't stay in the house to prove being a good girl or impress anyone. i jus like being home, safe, at peace, minding my business. i don't enjoy pretending to have fun in loud rooms full of people. if i step out, it's for something meaningful like a trip or an experience….🥳
I work on myself because I understand that I am responsible for where I end up. Not for everything that happened to me, but for every response, every habit, and every decision I made after it. That distinction is everything. Blame is easy. Ownership is what actually changes your life.
Arguing with a man that never admit he wrong is like talking to a brick wall. Every lie got an excuse, every betrayal got a reason, every problem somehow becomes your fault. At some point you stop trying to get an apology and start planning your exit. Cause you can’t fix a man that think he perfect.
Acts of service really makes me melt. Idc what it is. How big or small. The fact that I'm considered and thought about & you want to make my day easier is a lot to me🥹🥲
my mom once told me "accountability will always feel like an attack when you are not ready to acknowledge how your behavior harms others" and that shit is real.