yes gurlss
pokonya kalo lagi pdkt maupun pcrn terus dibikin bingung, insecure dll
langsung aja cuci mindset di kepala mu dgn “my future hubby wouldn’t do that”
dijamin auto ilfil dan luntur itu perasaan🙏🏻
Never teach a man how to love you. Don’t remind him to call, text, plan, or show up. Love that needs instruction isn’t love. The right man moves with intention, pride, and consistency. When he values you, you’ll never question your place.
ternyata bener yaa..
love after 25 tahun itu beda banget, udah bukan cari “spark” atau rasa salting di awal ajaa. tapi sekarang yang dicari tuu lebih ke stability, kindness, and share the goals. karna kitaa udah ngelewatin fase yang penuh permainan, drama, dan butterfly yang cepet banget ilangnya
sekarang yang dibutuhin itu lebih ke cinta yang sederhana namun dalam, kayak peace, emotional safety dan seseorang yang arah dan tujuan masa depannya tu sama sejalan sama kita
y’all are so obsessed w finding a man .. girl go study, find a better job, find a skin care regimin, increase your credit, get that degree, pay off your car, build your savings, travel, live a little, but keep ur priorities straight! life is not all about a man. take care of you!
Lo mau bunga? Tanem sendiri. Lo mau beli barang? Nabung sendiri. Lo mau ke tempat lucu? Pergi sendiri. Cari duit sendiri, nikmatin sendiri, andelin diri sendiri. Ga perlu bantuan orang lain, ga perlu bergantung ke orang lain. Bisa bikin diri sendiri seneng itu puasnya beda.
Don’t marry someone you hope to change.
Marry the person whose daily behavior, values, and character already align with what you want in a partner.
Potential is a gamble.
Patterns are evidence.
That’s true. Chemistry bisa dibangun, keseruan bisa diciptakan, interest bisa dipelajari. Tapi boundaries, values, moral compass, ethics, kalo ga sama bakal nambahin banyak pertanyaan dan keraguan, which leads you to less enjoy your relationship