Masturbation is not simply a matter of weakness or a lack of self-control. From a spiritual perspective, it can be viewed as an attack intended to delay, frustrate, and hinder a personβs destiny. Every time you release semen through masturbation, you may be giving spiritual forces an opportunity to influence, control, and weaken your life. This is why it is important to recognize the spiritual dimension of the struggle and take deliberate steps toward freedom and self-discipline.
Money makes you a better friend, partner, colleague, sibling, parent, e.t.c. In fact, money makes you a better person to your own self.
You canβt even gift your loved ones because you canβt afford to. So at some point, they may begin to think you are just stingy.
When you are poor, it is hard to even give yourself grace because you keep dealing with low quality problems money can easily solve.
Lack of money puts you at other peopleβs mercy. You donβt have the luxury of options so you find yourself in toxic relationships, workspaces, or even a toxic home, simply because you cannot afford to walk away.
Poverty is so humiliating. You daydream about changing your life everyday but constantly in survival mode. Before you know it, you are almost 40, with dreams that may not come through, and you find yourself settling.
Please, do whatever you can, legitimately, to make money. You need money for absolutely everything. Donβt let anyone tell you otherwise.
Of course, it is not poverty. It is a value system problem. We are not the only poor country or poor people. Date poor foreigners on minimum wage and you'll still experience maximum love.
What they are doing in Nigeria is not relationship
Nobody loves you when youβre down.
The truth? People would rather throw money at a billionaire than give a struggling person a chance to breathe.
When you have nothing, your problems become an inconvenience. When you have money, suddenly everybody wants to be part of your story.
Thatβs the ugly truth nobody likes to admit.
Life will teach you that not everything you lose is a loss, not everything you gain is a blessing, and not everyone who walks beside you is meant to walk with you forever. π―
I get the "society that tells a poor man that he does not deserve to be in a relationship, cannot tell a rich man how many relationship he can be in" and "go for women you can afford."
The problem is with leading people on. If you want to marry one person and sleep around, that is your business. But let the others know that they are just hors d oeuvres. Denying your relationship/marriage because of sex is problematic. The other people are looking forward to commitment.
How are you in a relationship with multiple people and each of them thinks they are the only one? Men and women do this nonsense and forget the other people are human beings, not numbers. They are getting hurt and this trauma causes a ripple effect that destroyed this generation.
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As a generation, we need to stop worshipping money and shaming poor people. This idea of mocking and shaming poor people away from love, is not healthy. Everybody deserves love. Love cannot be monetized.
We also need to encourage faithfulness because a healthy society begins from a healthy family system. Too many people are damaged from hurt snd trauma. On one hand, we hate cheating and on the other hand, we encourage people to do it. Trust issues just yapa and innocent people are getting burnt.
Do you know how it feels like to have everything and suddenly you have nothing?
Do you know how it feels like to know that the same family that used to look up to you now know that you failed?
Once money no dey again, you go see people wey dey respect you disrespect you. Na why e no good to be nice, no help anybody, make everybody carry their own cross. π§πΎββοΈππ½
Youβll see people stuck in the same loop for years, getting older with nothing to show for it. People in their late 30s barely able to afford the basics let alone start a family.
Itβs easy to laugh at them but if this country continues this way, you could be next.