after the early stages, i think many women stop operating from their own defaults and start mirroring you. her behavior becomes less about who she naturally is and more about who you’ve made her to be, through how you treat her consistently over time.
I’m noticing how accounts that stayed silent about the rape these past few days, didn’t call for justice for rape victims, didn’t contribute to the femicide discourse, said absolutely nothing but are now vocal about ‘false accusations’.
This is me rn. I danced my soul away, CAREFREE, in another country on Friday night. There’s nothing anyone can say/do to me that can deplete my peace.
I’m just focused on my happiness and getting my bag up tbh.
Dear ladies never forget that: The same world that shames me for being a single mother also shames you for not being a mother and shames another woman for having too many children..lt shames one woman for having a child at the age of 19 because she's too young but also shames another for having at 36 because she's too old..lt shames a woman who marries young as well as the one who marries old..It shames women who don't have beautiful bodies and shames those who go under the knife to get the bodies. This world shames all women, not a single one of us is spared, not a single one. So love and make yourselves happy.