Not all women are the same. Some have a soul-level attraction. You either marry them if the feelings are mutual, walk away and never look back, or experience them and spend a long time trying to get them out of your mind. Some connections are not meant to be taken lightly. 💭
If you're looking to marry, in today's world,prioritize what you actually want,no you can't have it all, you might not even get 3 things in your "box" ticked
Just pick a priority, something you can always go back to and be like "well,I've got this"
PS: adulting requires peace.
The sheer number of variables that must align for a good person to also be the right spouse for you is quite astonishing when you think about it.
Their Deen,temperament, upbringing, family, in-laws, parenting instincts, conversational depth, physical attraction, background, values, even the particular flaws you can live with and the ones they can tolerate in you.
And beyond all these, the timing of your lives, the circumstances of your meeting, and your capacity to keep choosing each other as you both change.
So when you find someone whose virtues suit your needs, whose imperfections you can bear, and whose presence makes the responsibilities of marriage easier to fulfil, you begin to appreciate how much of it was beyond your own planning.
A compatible spouse is one of those remarkably particular gifts from Allah, so carefully suited to you that the more you contemplate the variables that couldn't be accidental, the more your gratitude deepens.
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Then there are people that "forget" they're owing! I don't know how they sleep at night or anytime of the day sef.
A pair of school shoes may look like a simple donation, but for a child in need, it represents safety, belonging, and the dignity to step into a classroom with confidence, and the courage to dream again ❤️
We at @LiftUpTheKidsNG donated 50 pairs of shoes to the less privileged pupils on Tuesday.
We have distributed 772 school footwear in total.
Thank you so much for your support and kindness towards the project 🙏🏾
#LiftUpTheKids