@Aduradara61049 Strictly depends on the man's bank account
See Razaq Okoya, ṣee his wife, Sade
See Buhari Buhari, ṣee his wife, Aisha
See Obi, he even married a teenager
See Ned, he married Regina
See Ọọni, see the the caliber of his wives, top tiers
A rich man can get anyone at anytime
@ifycraines@Dc_Atuegwu Perhaps she feels it but is it really additional chores to cook for one more person? At least the family would eat even if d mother isn't there.
If the mother doesn't help too, then she's a terrible person
However, it's supposed to be d husband that talks to both of them
Again. His mother offered to repay the money on instalment but I couldn't bear to take it because she was very good to me back in the days.
I lost the money and the friendship of about 15 years.
It still pains me till today
Saved 180k during my NYSC days, was already day dreaming how to spend it. Then my childhood friend (since primary school) asked me for loan him 150k to buy material and would repay me after Eid (when he would have sold his goods)
That was d last time I ever heard from him
... I went to Ilorin to find him (since I know everyone in his family). Her mother phoned him in my presence to come home that I'm waiting for him. He then switched off his phone and refused to come back. I left Ilorin back to Ibadan that evening heartbroken. Never called him...
@Tife_wrld LMAO
I took Micra from Olorunsogo to Iwo Road after the terminal brouhaha, I gingerly gave the man ₦200 after alighting, he asked me for the remaining of his money. I was like which money, am I not even supposed to get ₦50 change? He said "ẹ ṣẹṣẹ dè láti oko ni àbí?"
@AnythingArs_ Are you sure you watch Arsenal games at all?
EPL teams would never open up for Arsenal in this manner. Those that comes out are defending man to man
We only get to see team coming out in UCL, and we smashed every one of them till final and lost out on penalty
@IsholaSamiat@BaaleOfMilan When you are already defensive against a mother in law u haven't met, it can't end well
As if we all don't have mothers. Is her own mother not also a mother in law (if he has son)?
It's just victimization women pass through from one generation to another upon their own gender.
@A_mutakabir@rilenzy@janetfunmi The man would be an adult. An adult is supposed to make a conscious decision. So if in his conscious state decide to train other person's children, then it doesn't matter. It's what he chooses
@Oracle_009@rilenzy@janetfunmi Responsibility is forced on us. You're forced to feed your children even if you don't want because it's your responsibility.
I said if it wasn't forced on him. If he chooses to do it on it own volition without anyone gaslighting or compelling him to do it, then it's not an issue
@Lifeof_AG01 Yes it is right
But don't underestimate human's nature.
A wicked person could act kind to who they want, if something changes, they would unleash the wickedness because it's in their nature
@rilenzy@janetfunmi Wouldn't matter if u found comfort, companionship, mercy and perhaps love with their mother. But that should be in the case of you already having your own kids (widower or divorcee) and don't necessarily need kids more.
Subject to IF you can AFFORD it and it's not FORCED on you