aff fico muito mal ela tava se planejando toda ia se demitir focar nas escritas e aquele vagabundo simplesmente acabou com a vida dela pra no final morrer e ela ficar com as consequências meu deus nunca vou superar. aqueles finais piores que a morte
Con esta película se están destapando muchas realidades entre la gente que no entiende algo tan básico. Como por ejemplo, que las mujeres no podemos sonreír o ser amables con un chico porque si no es que estás ligando para luego decirle que no
obsession was really terrifying bc one man became infatuated with the idea of a woman for years and feels entitled to her and makes a wish that she'll fall in love with him more than anyone else in the entire world
and when his wish comes true he doesn't care that she's not in control of herself while they're together and that it was not consensual. he wanted her to be devoted to him so she could cater to his unfulfilled needs until she became inconvenient.
when she becomes "too much" he wishes for her to be normal and genuinely believes he's the victim in a situation he created.
this movie has me thinking about the larger societal framing of how people view women who are emotionally reactive as dangerous and uncredible, when in reality, they are trying to deal with the trauma of being put in harmful and violent situations by predatory and abusive men.
thinking about this scene and how nikki was opening up to bear because she trusted him with things she never dared to say to anyone else (which is exactly what she said to him), and the SAME NIGHT he robbed her of her entire self and everything she trusted him with…