@quesadaaa_ Love doesn’t follow patterns or logic. It’s unpredictable, messy. You can analyze a hundred variables and still miss the feeling. Maybe that’s why it scares people, because they can’t control it. They overthink the magic right out of it.
Every time you procrastinate, you reinforce that behavior. You’re training your brain to avoid hard things. Over time, this creates a self-sabotaging identity.
Being a good person isn’t enough. You can be kind, loyal, and full of love and still get overlooked. Life doesn’t reward goodness. It rewards those who move smart,act at the right time,and stand firm knowing their worth. Be good, but don’t be stupid!
Maybe a big part of the reason more and more women don’t want kids is because they see how easy it is to end up a single mother and how badly single mothers get treated and want no parts.
i hate being around people who lack emotional intelligence and self-regulation. it just irks my soul. if you cannot see things outside of yourself and how you’re harming others, you will never evolve. intention has nothing to do with impact