The thing about patriarchy is that whatever you do and how much you sacrifice, you wont get as much credit as men get. People will praise them more for even the smallest thing they do.
Yg kemarin nanya gimana caranya tau the one, Zendaya ngasi tau salah satu indikatornya. Dan gw sepakat.
Kalo lo punya pasangan, tp malah bikin lo stress, anxious, cemburuan, emosi... NGAPAIN. 🥲
Semoga kalian ditemukan dengan pasangan yg bikin kalian tenang. Gak harus bertanya2 niat dan motifnya apa. Gak harus wondering dia kemana dan sama siapa. Gak harus nebak-nebak mood dia jelek apa gak. Gak harus ngerasa sayang sendirian tp mau belajar love language satu sama lain. Gak harus jadi orang lain supaya dia percaya kalo kita worth it.
Beneran deh. Pasangan tuh INVESTASI PALING BERHARGA.
Gw ada temen, dia tuh bisa seharian di rumah cuma ngegame atau baca buku. Gak keluar, gak ngobrol sama siapapun, gak ngehubungin siapapun.
Dan dia baik baik aja.
Gw pernah chat dia siang, gak dibales. Sore, gak dibales. Malem baru muncul, 'oh sorry gw lagi asik.'
Asik ngapain? Ngegame sendirian. Atau baca buku sampe ketiduran.
Bukan karena dia lagi sedih. Bukan karena ada masalah. Emang itu hari normalnya dia.
Gw yang justru heran sendiri kok bisa ya? Gw sejam aja di rumah tanpa ada suara orang udah mulai gak karuan.
Tapi dia? Tenang. Gak gelisah. Gak ngerasa ada yang kurang.
Pewdiepie has won the game of life.
He ruled YouTube with more than 115 million subscribers and then chose to walk away on his own terms.
> 36 years old
> multimillionare
> moved to japan
> spends his days with family
> posts videos only when hes inspired
> studies philosophy
Happy to see someone from the early youtube days enjoy life instead of being chronically online
> retired at 33 after dominating YouTube for a decade
> married his longtime girlfriend and moved to Japan
> learns Japanese, reads philosophy and the classics
> keeps his life private, no scandals
> still trains, still ripped
> designs his own minimalist home setup
> builds small coding and AI projects for fun
> makes videos only when he feels like it
> became a dad, focused on family
> doesn't chase fame or money anymore
> lives peacefully, offline, doing exactly what he wants Has Pewds quietly figured out life better than everyone else?