Too many Christians absolutely LOVE the idea that people and even family members will suffer infinite unimaginable torments for disagreeing with them.
It’s a deeply sadistic & vindictive mindset that we as a society haven’t even come close to unpacking since it’s so normalized.
thinking about being on the bus in kyoto and this white guy goes "um sumimasen spider desu", points to a huge spider next to the driver, and the old man driver just laughs and grabs it with his hand and tosses it out the window
Men being furious about playing as a magical goddess that thickens the story/mythology while happily roleplaying as a half-naked oiled-up rage god for decades is one of gaming’s funniest self-reports.
Women have been playing as men forever and somehow survived. Wild.
#PrideMonth
read more books. read to escape reality. read to understand reality. read to challenge what you believe. read to think better. read to write better. read to argue better. read to know yourself. read to build something. a single book can completely rewire your brain.
im sorry but if were powerscaling lesbian sex there is NO POSSIBLE SCENARIO where quanxi "i make my 5 girlfriends cum til they pass out hourly" is losing. do you understand? shes the goku of lesbian sex, no one is doing it like her
@lottemunsterttv@suchnerve p sure any amount of emotional suppression in some sense, esp if you choose to self restrict (greywalling) rather than just reactionary avoidance, you are absolutely inflicting further stress upon yourself at the cost of a "safer" choice
@lottemunsterttv@suchnerve this is so wrong lol greywalling absolutely spikes cortisol. i remember learning the term was grey-rock or grey stoneing when i was a kid trying to learn ways to survive my abuse. and its specific as a means of responding to narcissistic abuse i thought?
Not sure how to do this when avoidance keeps being proven the correct decision the vast majority of the time, which itself is a downstream consequence of disempowerment (you can’t win, so the least harmful choice is to just not play at all)
i fear the hottest relationship dynamic is when a woman acts like a chaotic creature and the man finds it deeply amusing instead of spiritually exhausting