Yall need to start being mean to people that are mean to YOU. Stop that bigger person shit.. Release your inner bitches or whatever Natasha Bedingfield said!
Unless a man sits you down and tells you straight up " I'm ready to be in a committed relationship, I want you to be my girlfriend." And you agree,then don't assume that you are. It doesn't matter what he does for you,how much you've given him or what you guys do together