Nigerian men with questionable character, the kind that commit rape, still manage to successfully travel to countries like the UK and USA.
Instead of focusing on the reason they are there, they continue with their disgusting habit of raping girls, including minors. They think they will get away with it the same way they do back in Nigeria.
Nigerian men will not call out their fellow men and tell them to stop raping women. Instead, they give the same tired excuse: “She was wearing seductive clothes.”
What exactly do you mean by “she was wearing seductive clothes”? So if I decide to wear just pants and bra and walk on the street, does that automatically mean you should get aroused and force yourself on me?
You simply lack self-control, self-discipline, and sexual discipline. You refuse to see the real issue. You refuse to take accountability.
Nigeria needs to do better.
You don’t even want to know the number of Nigerian men already in jail abroad for rape cases in 2026.
Short Sex Education:
Consent: Must be clear, ongoing, and enthusiastic from all involved. Can be withdrawn at any time.
Anatomy & Pleasure: The clitoris has thousands of nerve endings and is key for many people's pleasure. Explore your own body to learn what feels good. Foreplay and communication improve experiences.
Safety: Use condoms or other barriers to reduce STI and pregnancy risk. Get tested regularly. Urinate after sex to help prevent UTIs. Use lube when needed.
Communication: Talk openly with partners about desires, boundaries, and concerns.
Health: Listen to your body. Seek medical advice for any pain, unusual symptoms, or questions about birth control/STIs.
This is basic, factual info. Stay safe and informed.
I once dated a man who, anytime we argued or he wanted to 'win' a discussion, would just repeat 'I am a man, I am a man' like that was supposed to magically settle it.
Years later and I still get full-body cringe thinking about it
The bar was in hell and he still limbo'd under it.
Why do we keep centering men in relationships, media, careers, and even our own self-worth? It's time to decenter them. Let's prioritize our own stories, boundaries, joy, and growth instead of shrinking ourselves to fit their narrative.
What’s one area in your life where you’re choosing to decenter men?
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