Good morning, I made purchase of N15,000 light from IBEDC through my first bank account yesterday 1/10/26 and I am yet to receive the token. Kindly assist.
@FirstBankngr
North-Eastern University, Gombe, has approved immediate salary increases of 40% to 65% for all staff and introduced 50% scholarships for six science and planning programmes.
🚨🔴⚪️ Ademola Lookman to Atlético Madrid, here we go! The agreement is in place on every detail.
€35m fixed fee, €5m add-ons to Atalanta and long term deal agreed by Lookman after decision last night.
Atlético, planning now for travel and medical next for the Nigerian. 🇳🇬
- Chelsea win
- Estevao goal
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- Enzo assist
- James assist
- Sanchez cleansheet
- Fofana & Chalobah solid
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- Yamal stinker
- Barcelona destroyed
- Still the World Champions
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FOOTBALL WON TODAY!!!
One of the commonest mistakes in marriages, speaking from the knowledge and experience of someone who has consistently handled marital disputes/dissolution of marriage proceedings, for about a decade now, is couples believing they can/should handle marital disputes without involving 3rd parties.
In fact, it’s a common advice for new couples that whatever happens in your marriage, keep it within your walls. But what I think should be the ideal advice is: know when to involve 3rd parties and when to amicably resolve marital disputes. For some marriages, they could have survived breaking down if they had involved 3rd parties before the issues went out of their control to break down their marriages, irretrievably. While for some, the involvement of 3rd parties led to the complete break down of their happy homes.
What’s common to both sides is not knowing when to involve 3rd parties and when to. In most jurisdictions, where marital disputes are litigated, before courts pronounce any marriage over, efforts are made to find an amicable ground to resolve issues. Even before civilization came, there are histories of successful resolution of marital disputes through an amicable settlement.
In fact, under our laws, before you approach the court to dissolve a marriage, it’s a statutory requirement to have explored alternative dispute resolution, which is why one of the documents needed to file alongside a petition for dissolution of marriage is certificate of reconciliation, which shows efforts made to resolve the dispute amicably, before choosing litigation. Even after the petition is presented before the court to dissolve a marriage, the judge is duty bound to see how parties can resolve amicably, either in the open court or through compulsory conference.
Due to the sanctity of the institution of marriage, courts, except it’s evidently clear that parties are better off without the marriage, a court will not pronounce the marriage over, just for the fun of it or the parties feel like it.
All of these prove one point right and another point wrong in this order: the fact that 3rd parties’ interventions are necessary for the resolution of marital disputes; and that you should keep your marital issues within yourself.
So back to the point: knowing when to involve third parties is more important than focusing on keeping your issues within your wall. Vetting the 3rd party is as important as also asking yourselves the important questions, such as:
-How do you know who to involve?
-When/how do you know when to involve the third party?
-What role does the 3rd party play?
-What is your relationship with the 3rd party?
-What influence does the third party have?
-What knowledge and experience does the third party have in giving guidance or resolving marital issues?
- Should the 3rd party be a professional or relative?
-Are the issues major or minor issues? among other things are the most vital considerations;
As a closing remark, involve 3rd parties but know when to, you might be saving your marriage.