A clever person solves a problem, a wise person avoids it, cleverness is finite you only have so much energy, before u burn out. Wisdom is invisible and scales!
The biggest skill you can develop in life is the ability to reset fast, bad conversation? Move on, missed workout? Hit it the next day, bad day? Start fresh tomorrow, bad decision? Learn and adjust. U can't control what happens to u, but u can control how long u let it affect u!
It took me 15 years to understand the problem and just 5 months to solve it, we are talking about a 98% to 2% ratio, it's not easy to realize what actually demands more of your time when you are striving in life, it is important to hang on!
I thought it was just my father who plows but it seems the whole universe is an act of plowing, through the dense strain field of the nucleus, it generates a wake. To survive, the electron must perfectly surf its own wake, I'm plowing anyway which my dear mother never wished for!