Someone said: Normalize celebrating this:
– a roof over your head
– a warm shower
– having clean water
– a day without pain
– moments of gratitude
These are blessings too.
Ima keep encouraging women to keep them legs closed & not to have kids too unless their situation checks EVERYTHING single box. Bc even if ONE thing is lacking, it will spiral into a lifetime of struggle. You dont deserve it & neither do the babies. We deserve to walk into motherhood WHOLE, prepared, & SUPPORTED.
no one talks about the personality shift as you get older. where you no longer want to be impressive, you want to be rested. you want to be regulated and completely unavailable to anything that drains you