Normalize telling women "actually, he hates you." I'm so over the obvious disrespect, neglect and abuse women endure for the sake of loving a man. You love him, he hates you. Get out and never return.
A safe man comes into your life & loves you correctly. No sneaky stuff. No half love. No extra females. No inconsistency. Just you and you only sis.
You can literally feel it in your soul when it's TIME. time to move on from people, time to make a change in your life, time to get rid of unhealthy habits, time to want MORE for yourself. At some point, you'll just KNOW. That's your call.