This is for yll trying to get married.
Do not get with someone that’s not your type or spec with the intention of “i’ll charge her/him”
This includes their skin tone, mindset, physical build, way of life.
If you like skinny girls, get you a skinny girl.
If you like tall guys, get you a tall guy.
If you like chubby girls, get you a chubby girl.
If you like fit girls/guys, get you a fit girl/guy.
You're entitled to your preferences, but what you're not going do is date someone who's not your type and try to bend them to your preference or make them feel inferior to others.
You’re going to break her/him.
Don’t ruin or puncture someone’s ego, self esteem and confidence by always reminding them that they’re not what you wanted.
There’s somebody for everybody, relax and find them.
What is Sabr?
• Sabr is smiling at people despite all the hurting inside you.
• Sabr is forgiving people that are cruel to you.
• Sabr is having full Tawakkul in Allah that everything will workout.
• Sabr is trusting Allah's plan.
Allah will surprise you in ways you never imagined. Being patient is hard, but the relief Allah has in store for you is worth the wait. Every delay is a blessing, and everything will make sense in a beautiful way. He is truly the Best of Planners.
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Let Allah heal your heart, and move on from what's not meant for you. Healing and moving on take time, but once you accept Allah's decree and remind yourself that His plans are better than ours, things meant for you will happen.
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ALLAH SHOWS YOU ENOUGH SIGNS!
Allah will keep showing you signs until you pay attention to them. Sometimes, it's tough to accept reality and see things as they truly are. You might try to fight against what Allah has planned for you, or you can finally accept it.
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I think it's very important to pray about marriage and the kind of partner you want to end up with.
Someone who won't stress you and will not make life miserable for you, someone you won't be worried/scared would engage in zina or what's close to it when you’re away, someone whose love you can always be sure of, someone who gives you peace of mind and you’re their priority.
For all Muslims, if you’re having a heartache, anxiety, sadness, despair, read these duas again and again.
1. HasbunAllah waniimal wakeel
2. La ilaha illa anta subhanaka inni kuntu mina al dhalimin
3. La hawla wala quwwata illa billah