You never know how things are going to land until you try them. Yes, you can think of *all* the possibilities up in your head, but 1. You might be wrong 2. You might be surprised what actually happens.
Just thinking, reflecting upon, and not doing isnโt getting you anywhere. You are simply standing still in the familiar spot that you so desperately hate and want to get out of, but also the spot you are afraid to leave and feel most at โhomeโ in.
You have to choose: Stay โsafeโ and miserable OR take a risk by stepping outside of your comfort zone and potentially get everything you want and more, but without a guarantee and most likely with pain along the way.
Youโre already suffering, might as well try a new flavor of it.
everyone and their mother trying to tell you who to be and what you should do
honestly, go find a quiet space and listen to yourself for a change
you have the answers inside yourself and not in these X โgurusโ/self-help influencers who btw are just trying to sell you their crap
If shaming and putting people down is your preferred method of communication when youโre hurt, you seriously need to grow the hell up and go away. No one wants to be treated like that and I bet your a$$ if someone treated you in the same way, youโd play victim and whine about it
If you donโt love yourself and feel that you are worthy, you will either subconsciously self-sabotage experiences, opportunities, and relationships that come to you because you feel you donโt deserve them or you wonโt receive those opportunities in the first place.
@Theholisticpsyc The blow of trauma can definitely be lessened when you have someone there to support you through it. So much so, that it might not register in your body as trauma. While the experiences that might not be considered traumatic were traumatic because of the lack of support.
@SeekMastery Everything is mindset. We can choose to flip old and limiting perspectives upside down, we can rewrite habitual scripts, and we can seek new truths and untrodden paths. All with choice.
Self-love takes time and is a process. Learning how to first be neutral towards yourself, then moving to liking yourself, and then eventually to loving yourself is easier and makes it feel like not such a great leap, especially when you are accustomed to hating yourself.
@Theholisticpsyc The blow of trauma can definitely be lessened when you have someone there to support you through it. So much so, that it might not register in your body as trauma. While the experiences that might not be considered traumatic were traumatic because of the lack of support.
We know that we are meant for more, but our timing doesnโt match up to us as yet.
Be patient and continue to do the work until what you believe yourself to be matches with reality.
@_Pammy_DS_ Trusting your intuition is trusting yourself. Trusting yourself is believing in yourself. Believing in yourself is loving yourself. Loving yourself is the ultimate goal.
@_Pammy_DS_ Trusting your intuition is trusting yourself. Trusting yourself is believing in yourself. Believing in yourself is loving yourself. Loving yourself is the ultimate goal.
@SeekMastery Everything is mindset. We can choose to flip old and limiting perspectives upside down, we can rewrite habitual scripts, and we can seek new truths and untrodden paths. All with choice.