Imagine these the women you see growing up and then society tells you some mf Gwyneth Paltrow is the most beautiful women in the world, GTF out my face
the craziest thing about being an adult is that you could go through the most traumatic night of your life and you'll just have to go to work the next day
My man said something to me that really stuck.
He told me, “I’m not actually here to control you. I’m not your dad, I’m your partner. You’re free to make your own choices. Just understand that every choice has consequences. If you choose something that damages what we’ve built, that’s on you.”
He said, “I’ll always tell you when something hurts me or crosses a boundary, because that’s what healthy communication looks like. But if you keep stepping over the line after I’ve shown you where it is, then you were never really protecting us to begin with.”
And honestly, that’s what accountability in a relationship sounds like.