A lot of women will be in perfectly safe, stable relationships with guys who genuinely love and respect them. But the exact second a wealthier, higher-status man gives them a tiny bit of attention, they will instantly sabotage their relationship. They will coldly discard a loyal guy just to get a shot with the guy at the top.
They walk away from a man who would do anything for them, all for a man who has fifty other women in his DMs. And the crazy part is, these high-value men make it extremely obvious they have no intention of settling down. They don't hide it.
But the woman's ego convinces her that she is the exception. She thinks because she is pretty, she is going to be the one to make him drop his entire roster and suddenly want a wife.
Then, when the inevitable happens, when he gets bored and replaces her with the next girl in his lineup, she immediately runs to the internet to cry victim. She starts screaming that "men are trash," "men are afraid of commitment," and "men just use women."
You aren't a victim. You played a highly calculated game of upgrading, and you lost. You threw away a good man for a guy who treated you exactly like the temporary option you were. You aren't crying because you were manipulated; you are crying because your gamble didn't pay off and now you are left with nothing.
Before she leaves you
She will:
-go cold without warning
-cut s3x first
-get irritated by everything you do
-stop respecting you
-pick fights to justify it
-compare you to other men
-keep you around while checking out
-test you harder because she’s done
-talk less, care less, invest zero
She doesn’t leave when she’s gone.
She leaves while you’re still there.
If you miss it, that’s on you.
Reality check.
Cowo dan cewe jaman sekarang sama sama jadi korban podcast / konten relationship yang bias dan terlalu oversimplify suatu hal yang kompleks.
Disatu sisi, tontonan cewe tentang provider men dan kisah cinta orang lain yang isinya diroyalin.
Di sisi lain, tontonan cowo tentang istilah if he wanted to he would yang mereduksi effort yang udah mereka kasih selama ini.
Orang pacaran, bukannya komunikasi satu sama lain, malah disuruh ambil kesimpulan dari sosial media. Jadinya ya, mau menang sendiri terus.
The ultimate double standard in modern marriage is the unilateral cancellation of vows. A man is socially and legally expected to fulfill 100% of his traditional duties, to provide, protect, finance, and remain strictly faithful. But a woman can completely abandon the physical and intimate aspects of the marriage for years with zero societal pushback. If he complains, he is shamed as needy or predatory. If he files for divorce to escape a lifetime of forced celibacy, the courts will take his house, his kids, and his income. He is essentially trapped in a legally binding roommate contract where his utility is violently demanded, but his humanity is completely ignored.
makin make sense kenapa Rasul nyuruh suami qowwam dan melarang wanita utk kufur terhadap kebaikan suaminya
sampe ada hadits tersendiri soal ini🥲
emang rumah tangga nih pelik. ada yg suaminya baik, tapi istrinya kufur nikmat
kebalikannya, ada yg suaminya dzolim (ga nafkahin, kdrt, selingkuh, dll), tapi istrinya sabar
moga kita tidak termasuk suami/istri yg dzolim dan mudah publikasi masalah rumah tangga sendiri di sosmed aamiin
Bayangin aja, lima tahun lamanya dia cuma hangat sama suaminya pas lagi ada duit dari kerja freelance. Pas suaminya lagi sepi job, dia langsung dingin padahal suaminya tetap setia urus rumah dan anak tanpa komplain. Sekarang setelah ia sendiri yang jadi tulang punggung keluarga, baru deh sadar kalau selama ini ia salah menilai pasangan cuma dari kondisi finansial. Penyesalan emang adanya di akhir tapi itu jadi pelajaran der!
📸 Threads/syifahusnamalia
tadi baca di threads cuma udah terlanjur ke scroll,
ada istri yg menyesal sejadi2nya,
suaminya freelancer, istrinya punya pekerjaan tetap.
suaminya kerja dirumah sambil ngurus anak dan bersih2. sedangkan istrinya kerja di kantor.
sayangnya rezekinya blm berpihak ke suami, penghasilan blm stabil padahal udah sering begadang dan berusaha.
istrinya sering merendahkan suaminya apalagi 2 bulan terakhir belum ada penghasilan, alhasil hidup dari gaji istri, sikap istri dingin dan meremehkan.
sampai suatu malam di kamar suaminya bilang mau kerja dengan senyum dan ramah karna mau begadang dan ngulik lagi depan laptop, istrinya masih judes karna si suami blm ada penghasilan 2 bulan itu.
paginya pas dicek suaminya sudah meninggal karna kecapean kerja di depan laptop dan kopi yg belum habis.
dan sedihnya lagi ketika cek hp, suaminya berhutang ke temen2nya untuk sekedar beli susu dan popok anaknya.
jujur sedih banget bacanya..
hasil itu urusan Allah, tugas manusia itu berusaha dan berdoa...
tolong bgt buat istri2, kalau suaminya sudah berusaha maksimal tapi hasilnya blm optimal, tolong tetap di support, di tenangkan mentalnya, cari jalan keluar bareng2, jangan dibuat makin hancur 😭
1 suami gugur ketika mencari nafkah, 19 juta suami merasakan penderitaannya 😭😭😭 semoga syahid.
Assalamualaikum selamat sore. Halo. Jika teman-teman ada yang punya greenhouse melon skala industri dan butuh karyawan baik sebagai grower maupun kepala kebun bisa hubungi saya ya.
Terima kasih.
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