Things I think are feminist about SxF:
- Yor being canonically stronger than Loid
- The way Yor is developing meaningful relationships with other women (her coworkers, Olka, Melinda) as she heals from her past
- Martha living a fulfilling child-free life following her dreams after the man she loved got married
- Anya and Becky's wholesome friendship- they are distinctly different in Anya's love of action stories and Becky's love of romance, and there is no superiority assigned to these differences
- Handler being a badass spy but also struggling from a very unglamorous realistic depiction of depression, and her healing begins not via a man or baby but by adopting a dog
- Becky's short-lived jealousy towards Yor turning into complete admiration
- Loid defending Yor multiple times against misogyny and cooking and cleaning for her