I am married.
However, the single me 30 years ago has this answer for you:
1) The bible forbids unequal yoke between believers and unbelievers. Age and time can never erase God's Word. It's a No No. How can I want to pray in tongues at 5:00am and the woman pulls out a calabash from under the bed. God forbid.
2) Language is important to me for 2 reasons. Banter is best understood between people who speak the same language. Imagine me having to translate yoruba banter to my wife because she speaks no Yoruba. I also have friends who cannot speak any Nigerian language because their parents were from different LGAs so their lingua franca at home was English. I have nothing against multi-ethnic or multi-national marriages. Do it, if you love it. I cannot because I still want to be in my comfort zone even within my marriage.
3) Food is important. It's part of culture. How can I get back home to a dinner of 2 slices of bread cut diagonally with some leaves in between? Ko le werk for me.
If you are a lady over 35 with a stable source of income, I personally don't think building from scratch with a man is your thing. The man must tick some certain essential boxes as a minimum else you may not have a very enjoyable experience.
That was how I was deceived in my mid 20’s as a devoted Christian girl that if I don’t marry him, I will miss God’s will and purpose for my life, 6 years in, emi fe bo, Oluwa ni o je 😂😂😂😂
You people should take it easy wit this Will, appointment, etc abeg 😂😂😂
I believe that if Man City hadn't approached Maresca to take over from Pep Guardiola, Maresca would still be at Chelsea today.
He wanted that move and looked for excuses to justify his resignation. That's how it works for coaches. They don't have loyalty because one small misstep and they are sacked.
So, when a massive opportunity arises, they push for it. That's the game. I don't blame him. How could he turn down the opportunity to become a manager at a much more stable club like Man City just to stay as head coach at Chelsea?
On top of that, Chelsea didn't upgrade his contract or status after winning the Club World Cup. We didn’t give him much to believe in.
The game is the game. Both parties played their cards. I just hope we have learned from it.
Yeah, one of the strongest delusions of the hyper-grace teaching is NOT believing apostasy disqualifies one from salvation...when the Bible is very clear on it.
My 11 for Englands first test this summer vs New Zealand.
1) Duckett
2) Hameed
3) Bethell
4) Root
5) Brook
6) Stokes
7) Smith (but needs to bat properly like he did for Surrey)
8) Rehan Ahmed
9) Ollie Robinson
10) Archer
11) Tongue
#Ashes
@Miankyy@__totustuus Her family got her deported by trying to get me deported with false DV accusations that was investigated by social services who found it to be false and it backfired. She’s in Lagos, in her father’s house.
Here's my best advice. Find true happiness by being by yourself. Don't make anyone the source of your happiness and the Center of your world. Don't lose yourself in any relationship. Be ready to walk away from any relationship that doesn't edify you.
@mortalNion Deeper life and its members are definitely not perfect God keeps helping us
They can be legalistic yes
But changing goal post you people always talk about is evidence of growth and accepting higher knowledge
@d_ocheido Sorry but this isn't true. You may argue that some women don't place the G.S above their husbands but Deeper life members do pastor worship. They can't bear any criticism of kumuyi and yes, they are known for legalism with an always changing goal post.
If you finally make money in life and no woman was there to grow with you. Do not settle with any woman who is not at your level.
You men should learn to treat women as they should be treated not how they want to be treated.
A woman agreeing to be with you is not a favour. Say no to a scarcity mindset!!!!!
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