m1les

incompatible // i know things.

[m1les @yungdevve]

she didn't love me enough, i guess.

[// @aggzzx]

BBC choosing to broadcast from Salford is an incredibly baffling decision

[m1les @yungdevve]

nah this nigga too far gone

[Shubh @kadaipaneeeer]

to all the men out there, i urge you not to debate women right now.

i see a lot of men defending that clown by saying, “it was just a joke” or “you went to a comedy show, why are you taking it seriously?”

that’s exactly the point.

women aren’t reacting to a joke, they’re reacting to the mindset behind it.

because when a man casually suggests that spending ₹370 on a date means a woman owes him something in return, it stops being comedy & starts revealing character.

that’s why so many women are angry not because they missed the joke but because they’ve met that man before.

& he didn’t stop there.

in another video, he went on to talk about intimate details. about kissing her. about trying to put his hands where they weren’t wanted. about openly objectifying her body & about being rejected.

if your first instinct is to defend it & feeling sad about him losing his job over a viral reel, maybe ask yourself why.

it is exhausting to be a woman.

not just in rural villages.

not just in small towns.

everywhere on this earth.

women spend their lives calculating risks that most of us men never even notice.

which road to take.

whether to share their live location

whether to ignore a comment or confront it.

whether the man staring at them is just staring or planning something worse.

in past one month, three of my friends shared three different stories with me & honestly i had no idea how to even console them

one had an old man masturbate in front of her while she was returning from the gym at seven in the morning.

another stepped outside her house & walked 100 metres thinking it was the blinkit guy cause she ordered something. but no it wasn’t. it was a complete stranger who asked her to help her with an address & showed her a glimpse pornography on his phone & sped away with an evil smile.

the third stepped out of the gym (same gym as mine), crossed the road and was groped by a man on a passing bike.

three women. three stories. one month.

the saddest part is that none of those stories will shock most women reading this because almost every woman has her own version.

a stranger who followed her home.

a man who stood too close.

a relative who made her uncomfortable.

a crowd that looked away.

women don’t need statistics to understand fear.

many of them have lived it.

and that’s why so many men miss the point.

yes, some women use men, reject men for money & behave badly.

but those things do not make men afraid to walk home alone at night. they do not make men stay in high alert mode 24*7. they do not make men text their friends & family that : “i reached safely.”

they do not make men rethink what they wear before stepping outside. that is the difference.

so when women are angry, stop rushing to explain why they shouldn’t be. stop using your manchild logic to make her feel more stupid for venting out.

stop treating every expression of pain like a debate competition.

stop responding with “not all men.”

women already know it is not all men.

the problem is that it is enough men.

enough men for almost every woman to have a story.

enough men for mothers to worry.

enough men for daughters to stay alert.

enough men for fear to become routine.

there is so much that we as men will never fully understand but something does not need to be personally experienced to be taken seriously.

patriarchy isn’t just a system. it is a habit.

it lives in jokes. it lives in silences.

it lives in the casual objectification of women disguised as humour.

it lives in comment sections where women are reduced to objects and cuss words for having a voice.

it lives in the laughter that follows a degrading joke about women.

most of us inherited parts of it without choosing to, but being an adult means deciding what stays and what goes.

unlearn it because one day a woman will trust you enough to feel safe around you and if she cannot feel safe with the men who claim to love her then ask yourself what exactly have we become ???

[Prateekaaryan 𝕏 @AaryanPrateekX]

Because all they would do is lie.

[m1les @yungdevve]

@ArielDLacy1 @Ambar_SIFF_MRA yeah about that, i wasn't really talking about the meme. i was just referring to the fact that the subject matter of the mentioned paper was true. Indian men and women are infamous for hurling obscenities at the other party when rejected, so I'd say the post was rather regional

[m1les @yungdevve]

@daniegarcias @Ambar_SIFF_MRA not really, i don't even think it's a bad thing to reject people. i personally hold the belief that everybody should be taught how to handle rejection. Indian people, both men and women, are notoriously bad at handling rejections, they think they're entitled to not being rejected

[m1les @yungdevve]

@chakravartiiin omit the do, fat fingers

[m1les @yungdevve]

@chakravartiiin bitches be do dumb they think not fucking for a while reinstates their virginity

[m1les @yungdevve]

@1ISHPOPPER @Ambar_SIFF_MRA i wasn't even referring to killing people, i just cited a study where women just reject the people THEY LIKE out of the fear of rejection, when men don't do that. idk how you got the notion that i suggested that violence against women on the grounds of rejection is less. peace.

[m1les @yungdevve]

@J_C_A__ @Ambar_SIFF_MRA see, i think every person on earth should be taught the art of handling rejection. I know plenty of men (and women) who go batshit crazy when they get rejected. But the part where women reject men THEY LIKE is solely present in that specific gender, as the study suggests

[m1les @yungdevve]

@ArielDLacy1 @Ambar_SIFF_MRA yeah well they didn't really conduct any specific research, but anecdotal references should suffice

[J…. @yehblitzed]

You absolutely cannot find me a better one than this

[m1les @yungdevve]

@TakeNoChances__ bro this chick i knew from way back said she doesn't like what i say bout women and deleted my number; while i got other women reposting that exact same stuff. shit was hilarious

[ACERVO @AcervoCharts]

Junho é o mês da conscientização sobre a importância da saúde mental masculina.

[m1les @yungdevve]

@Ambar_SIFF_MRA for anyone interested here's the paper:
https://t.co/H5KngBSMiZ

[m1les @yungdevve]

@Ambar_SIFF_MRA there was a research conducted which basically concluded that women on dating apps would even reject the guys that they genuinely feel attracted to out of the fear of rejection. so yeah, it's pretty much true

[m1les @yungdevve]

@__unangenehm__ @Ambar_SIFF_MRA https://t.co/H5KngBSMiZ

[m1les @yungdevve]

@__unangenehm__ @Ambar_SIFF_MRA yes, gimme a minute, I'll cite the actual paper

[xia @xiazfan]

my boyfriend is beating me so instead of calling for help i'm going to ask my cousin to nut on my face

[m1les @yungdevve]

@Ambar_SIFF_MRA women would rather reject someone they crush over than being rejected, it's insane

[Mr Melancholy @chakravartiiin]

India is a gynocentric hell the unequal treatment genders receive is not even worth a debate at this point. I don't know how or why but 99.8% of men have been completely programmed at the very basal psychological level to be servile to these insane norms.

Entire society has declared women as divine beings above law and we are infected with simps at every possible level and layer. I am not kidding that 99.8% men will crucify other men for a whiff of female validation. I really see no way out of this.

It's better I reserve my views on FoE as this is an extremely fascist country