@WxnXBT@xdxdxd62621818 i’m not even gonna spend energy to tend to the amount of bullshit in that comment. is it too late to ask your mother to abort you ?
kind of weird how parts of your soul are left in various locations without any warning… like yes i’m always at the top of that hill, sitting at the bus stop, in the cool light of the Japanese restaurant, standing at the pier etc etc
every time you replace “this is hard” with “what’s the first step?” you shift brain activity from your amygdala (fear) to your prefrontal cortex (problem-solving).
that’s neuroplasticity in real time.
The smartphone really revolutionized the waiting room. Oh I get 20 minutes to look at my phone? Don’t mind if I do. The only problem is sometimes when I’m looking at my phone at home my home starts to feel like a waiting room and I realize it is and I’m just waiting to die
@edunfw@xdxdxd62621818 non-physical abuse is still abuse, emotional and verbal violence is still violence.
and to answer your point, most of the time domestic abusers didn’t put their hands on the victim.
we don’t minimize violence and only recognize it when the bruises are physical.
@edunfw@xdxdxd62621818 if we start minimizing intentional verbal and psychological violence, every victim will suffer from it. domestic abuse included. you’re a hypocrite.
« actual violence »?
what a weird thing to say.
you’re part of the problem.
@uh83816042@dontaripoefan2@xdxdxd62621818 hey so standing up against men’s violence isn’t misandry, that’s called accountability <3
if wanting men’s harm against women to stop is misandrist i’ll take the compliment.
not french nor a woman btw.
ps : not all men, but definitely you.
@alekr129@xdxdxd62621818@biggestgiy he cheated btw. the only thing that this points to is him insulting her.
in my opinion it looks like he wants to hurt her and get a reaction.
it also points out that in your head it would be justified if she cheated, ergo you -are- looking for justification for the violence.
@Lifeslop@dontaripoefan2@xdxdxd62621818 no it is not ? it’s not because abusers use verbal violence in a domestic abuse context that other instances should be minimized.
what’s insulting is minimizing violence because « you had it worse ».
you’re on the wrong team here.
@dontaripoefan2@xdxdxd62621818 you see a man verbally violent to a woman and your first reflex is to want to justify him and blame her T-T when we say all men, that includes men like you who’s first thought is to focus on victims rather than the offenders.
@User37733773@xdxdxd62621818 not a woman, and you need to learn to read context. oh and btw, he did cheat.
pay more attention to the context than to your personal pussy negative biases against women.
you see a man being emotionally violent to a woman and your first reflex is to blame her for it ? ew