I'm 54.
I wasted 24 years learning this the hard way. But I'll teach you in 5 minutes.
If you're soft, stop reading now.
Here are 24 uncomfortable truths I wish I knew earlier:
Sorry, bab berkawan ni i dah tawar hati dah. Siapa yang nak berkawan tu, teruskan. Siapa yang nak stay, stay. Yang nak pergi dari life i pun, silakan. Dah tua ni, malas nak sakit kepala & i dah tak kisah dah. I'll keep my circle simple and small. No dramas, very comfortable.