I’ve observed the males in my immediate surroundings for some years now and compared them to female counterparts & I can honestly feel confident to tell you how VERY DEEPLY SELFISH men are.
From age 7, age 18, age 39, age 67
Men will ALWAYS put themselves first
I was not yet 25 when I realized that I could not be with anyone that would not baby me.
Idc if I’ve made it a red flag in my own eyes but thankfully I will not end up with such.
I met a first daughter who told me she loves men who don’t just accept anything, men who don’t get bossed around, men who lead and she follows. Whats funny is, this babe loves to boss people around and when you don’t do what she says, her mood changes.
Made me understand something about first daughters, if you don’t lead, she will lead, and her leading makes you less attractive to her
We wake up each morning and assume that the rhythm of breath, the nearness of those we love will forever remain faithful to us, and that their memories will continue to occupy our tender hearts - but this is an illusion we hopelessly cling onto.
please be with someone who thinks everything special to you is a big deal. your birthday? a big deal. fav food? big deal. fav flowers? a BIG deal. you in general? a BIG deal