in order to become a better person, you must first realize how horrible you really are. not in the dramatic sense, but in the quiet ways you sabotage yourself, repeat unhealthy patterns, hurt people who care about you, or tolerate what wounds you. you cannot grow if you keep pretending you're innocent in the story you created.
My attachment issues are so bad i literally get attached to anything that makes me feel good 😭 a show that draws me in? Attached. A friend that makes me feel seen and keeps me laughing? Attached. A food that tastes like I can eat it everyday for the rest of my life attached.
nosy as i am, i dont care to know too much about a partner's past. my only non negotiable is that i never want to be in a room where i know less about a situation than anyone else there
if he brings out the child in you, you're dating a man. if he brings out the mother in you, you're dating a boy. if he brings out the inner man in you, you're dating a loser
my coping mechanism is distance. the moment i feel like things are overwhelming me, i’ll literally disappear on everyone until i feel safe enough to exist again.