Fun fact, you can be ambitious as heck and still have no interest to defeat others.
Since in your eyes, the only things that exist are you & your dreams. Nothing else matters.
That's why you only run and run to your goal and forget competition with anyone else.
Nak tau tak benda apa yang i think ramai orang terlepas pandang be it men or women. Perangai perasan bagus. Kita rasa eh asal dia pilih orang ni padahal aku ni serba serbi pandai padahal you sendiri tak tahu apa reason dia pilih spouse dia. Tantah dia lagi hebat dari you.
There is a Japanese Legend that says:
"Whether it's a machine, a house, or a relationship. Maintenance is always cheaper than repairing." What you don't maintain, you eventually lose.