Do not underestimate what it takes to get where you are going.
Be detailed and explicit about the what and the where.
Do not worry so much about the how.
You will figure that out.
You were born an original.
Unique.
A One-of-a-Kind.
But you place the attention of others higher than your self respect.
So, sadly, you'll probably die a copy.
Define the problem.
And then Relax.
Imagine your desired end result in extreme detail.
Trust yourself to bring what you've imagined to fruition.
Start.
And gather all necessary facts and information along the way.
So you failed.
And now you get perverse satisfaction out of feeling sorry for yourself.
Forgive everyone involved, give up your sense of condemnation, cancel out all debts with no mental reservation and move on.
Otherwise you'll be stuck.
Forever.
Instead, Be Resilient.
Your habits are the garments of your personality.
They are customizable and act as your armor.
They have you beaming with unshakeable confidence or signal that you are a lowly bottom dweller.
Choose what you wear carefully, for your self image is what's at stake.