This is called dating. Vibing out before you get into a relationship is called DATING.
DATING is already normalized, but what y'all really want to do is have access to someone without any responsibility or accountability for your behaviors and emotional capacity.
GROW UP
i saw this post that said "sometimes i feel so weird explaining to someone how inconsiderate they were in a situation. it's like if you didn't feel yourself wildin idk what's left to say." real is rare and when it's in you it feels so wrong to explain.
The funniest thing about Russ is Black Twitter painted him as a cornball, but he chose a Black woman to spoil. Meanwhile, all your real niggas choosing any race but...
Nobody tells you how hard it is to rewire your brain so you can allow amazing things to happen to you after so much trauma or hurt. Blessings exist, good people exist, a softer life exists. Let it happen.