Trauma survivors rarely say, “I need help.”
They say:
“I’ll figure it out.”
“It’s fine.”
“I’ve handled worse.”
They become their own safety net.
Because life taught them that depending on others isn’t safe.
The most worst part in depression phase is you are not longer interested in what you like and nothing can make you happy anymore..its about you vs you.
one of the hardest realisations is understanding that some people loved the comfort of being loved by you, but never had the emotional depth to love you in the way you deserved.
high functioning depression is scary as hell because you're very capable of hiding emotions, feelings and thoughts, so no one knows you're not okay and even if you say something no one realises the severity, because you don't seem like someone who is mentally spiralling out of control
Agar wife infertile hai tu husband 90% second marriage karta hai even wife khud keh deti hai k ap kar lein
But in case husband is infertile tu Wife bus sabar kar leti hai & matter is brushed under the carpet. This happens alot in our society & there’s no denying to this fact.