i thought i'd tell the world about the ups and downs we went through to get here—but the truth is, ours wasn’t a love full of any of it. it was steady. peaceful. and nurturing. not always filled with highs, but always enough to keep us grounded.
what truly melts our hearts are the kind strangers sending love to me and flyntz (despite not knowing us personally) simply because our happiness made them smile. it's so beautiful how love can ripple like that.
This is free advice from an expensive psychologist. If you’re an anxious person, do everything for fun. Go to a job interview for fun. Submit documents for fun. Start a blog for fun. Anxiety feeds on importance. Don’t make everything a matter of life and death.
“I love my LGBT friends, but...”
No, mahal. If we really love them, we’d fight that they enjoy the same rights as we do. We’d educate ourselves about their struggles. We’d use our straight privilege to dismantle an old system that oppresses them. ✊🏼💜
Ativando o arquetipo Dua lipa
depressão? nunca vi. apenas viagens, tirar lindas fotos, ler bons livros, estar perto dos de verdade e exalar energia positiva com meu futuro esposo
As a woman I am extremely aware that the reason I have my rights is because a woman somewhere got up, got MOUTHY, organised, raged, made herself INCREDIBLY inconvenient until things changed for the better for all of us. Which is precisely why I see women who uphold the patriarchy as traitors to all women.
ele é um marido horrível e infiel que comete micro agressões com a claire a obra toda. falam que ele é um bom pai mas tratar os filhos bem não é ser um bom pai e sim o mínimo, ela praticamente educava sozinha essas crianças enquanto ele passava a mão na cabeça deles 90% do tempo.
I’ve known my wife for 14 years and I don’t think I’ve ever had to forgive her for anything. You don’t have to settle for partners who hurt you over and over
the amount of matcha cloud i've had this week is insane 🤓 sino an naka try na sa matcha cloud sa 701? what are ur thoughts? can't compare it much to the ones in the city but my reference is the one i had in vietnam where i had to order thrice during our trip !! so goood
Always go to the funeral. Always go to the hospital. You don't need to know what to say.
In times of profound crisis, people don't remember your words, they only remember whether you showed up for them at their lowest moment.
personally i feel like folks (especially women) are blowing their youth trying to psychoanalyze men instead of getting hot & enjoying life. Men don't care about the impact of their own actions, why tf you do
After a certain age, your parents slowly become your children. They ask simple questions, repeat stories, and depend on your patience the way you once depended on theirs. Very few understand this role reversal.What looks like innocence or inconvenience is really time coming full circle. Don't correct them harshly. Don't rush them. Care for them the way they once protected you. This is not a burden. It is repayment.
I have a co-worker who never announces anything. You don’t know she applied for a promotion until she’s already in the new office. You don’t realize she bought her own place until she casually mentions “heading home to finish painting.” She doesn’t post milestones. Doesn’t crowdsource opinions. Doesn’t invite commentary.
I used to think she was secretive. That success was supposed to be shared loudly. That excitement needed an audience.
Now I see it differently.
She moves with intention. Quiet. Focused. Certain. Her plans are protected while they’re still fragile. Her joy isn’t diluted by outside noise. She lets things grow roots before she shows the world the bloom.
It isn’t secrecy. It’s discernment. It’s peace. It’s self-trust.
Sometimes the strongest people are the ones who build their lives softly, without applause, and let their results speak when they’re ready.