People stay worried about “monitoring spirits,” but Psalm 23 already told us God prepares your table in the presence of your enemies.
When He blesses you, He doesn’t hide you. He makes you untouchable.
When someone is really chosen by God you'll know it by the way they go through hell, lose people, lose possessions, face unbelievable storms and somehow come back stronger, resilient, full of joy and laughter even! That kind of strength isn't natural. It's supernatural. Divine.