A friend of mine in Switzerland 🇨🇭, Luca, once told me something that stayed with me.
He liked a lady in Zurich.
They used to talk almost every day. Nothing too serious but you know when communication has started carrying small hope.
One evening, he asked her if they could go out properly, not just random coffee after work.
She laughed and said:
“Luca, you are too reserved for me. I like men who are more spontaneous.”
He didn’t argue.
He just said okay.
The painful part was that he actually believed that was the problem.
So he started questioning himself.
Maybe I am too calm.
Maybe I don’t talk enough.
Maybe I should be more outgoing.
Maybe I should start doing too much just to look interesting.
A few months later, he saw her in Lausanne with another guy.
The guy was quieter than him.
This man barely spoke throughout the dinner. He sat there, nodded, smiled small and allowed her to do most of the talking.
The same silence she called “too reserved” in Luca had suddenly become “peaceful” in another man.
That day, Luca understood life.
Sometimes, people are not rejecting the attitude.
They are rejecting the person.
When they like you, your silence is maturity.
When they don’t like you, your silence is boredom.
When they like you, your simplicity is humility.
When they don’t like you, your simplicity is lack of ambition.
When they like you, your busy schedule means you are focused.
When they don’t like you, it means you don’t have time for them.
This is why you should not rebuild your entire personality because one person did not choose you.
Sometimes, nothing is wrong with you.
You are just not the person they want.
And that is okay.
Accept it with dignity and move.
I keep on revisiting this. You might not realize the depth of what he said. In urdu poetry, there is a concept where poets view God as a lonely being, so lonely that He created free willed humans for company. Loneliness is a Godly trait & whoever enters its realm meets God there
It is so bad that the more intense the feelings she has for you, it never increases her inclination to act, it only increases the expectation she has for you to act.
Which in turn increases the resentment she has for you when you d not act, even though you have no idea what’s going on with her all the while.
Women are cowards who want you to cross the ocean for them.
Power star Joseph Sikora, aka Tommy, tells the INSANE story of getting held at gunpoint by some YNs in Chicago and thinking it was over for him, only for them to start praising him for being as TUFF as his character after he didn’t run away 😭🔫💀👀
“I was just staring at these guys, and the driver goes, ‘I told you Tommy was that n-gga’… and I was basically just sh—ting myself.” 🤣
A woman hiking in Canada nearly became a grizzly’s next meal and the video circulating right now is genuinely one of the most intense wildlife encounters you will ever watch - her dog is with her, a massive grizzly is right there, and somehow she kept her head together long enough for both of them to walk away breathing.
That is not a small thing. Most people talk tough until nature is standing ten feet in front of them and every instinct in your body is screaming to run, and running is exactly the worst thing you can do.
Grizzlies are built to chase, they top out over 700 pounds and can cover ground faster than any human alive. The people who survive these moments are the ones who override pure fear with pure discipline and this woman did exactly that.
If you hike, camp, or spend any real time in the wilderness - bear spray is not optional, it is the difference between a story you tell and one somebody else tells about you.
Could you have kept your cool?
Hats off to her.
Men are superior at virtually everything because the universe would kill those who were not.
The fatal flaw in your position is one you yourself mentioned.
You are correct, we're more genetically stable than men.
But that added variation is why men are taller, faster, stronger, smarter, and harder to kill. Why the world's greatest tennis players and world's greatest chess players and business people and inventors and engineers and so on and so forth are all men.
Because those who were shorter, weaker, dumber, and failures were killed off or weren't allowed to reproduce.
We, on the other hand, just had to be good enough to stick something in and get a squirt.
Which is why so many of us revert to prostitution despite a century of the entirety of culture people us up at the expense of men and why women like you hate men as passionately as you do.
Because you know I'm right.
@shalomthedoll@shortymac0 Lol any length. 😂 you ladies think really highly of yourselves. Is your name money ?
Y’all just go around with stupid mentality and a one way mind. Bro if you don’t wanna fuck then go your way. Lol which fool would even go any length for you women of nowadays?Hell nah. Eww