If you’re with someone who’s constantly evolving and wanting MORE outta their own life… know that they WILL put that expectation on u. Steer clear if u appreciate stagnancy.
my current project is me. I wanna look the best I’ve ever looked, make the most money I’ve ever made and be the most spiritually tapped in I ever have. no distractions just results
Remember that you’re an active participant in any relationship or friendship you choose to be in, you can leave when and if you stop having a good time. Your hands aren’t tied, it’s not jail.
You’re an adult, and you always have a choice.
Being 25 (almost 26) means that
- the people my age are still making up lost time from covid
- the people who are older than me aren't sure they wanna settle down
- the people younger than me are fundamentally different.
We are in, arguably, one of the hardest times to settle down and find someone we feel we can trust. It literally feels like I'm a fish out of water.
And yk what? I am a yearner. I do listen to music thinking about us, I do look forward to every time I get to see you, I do look at pictures of us, and I replay our conversations in my head.
16 years ago, Shontelle released "Impossible" as the lead single from her second studio album, "No Gravity". The song peaked at #13 on Billboard Hot 100 and #9 on UK Charts.
This is so key to a healthy relationship. Protection is more than walking on the outside and being able to fight if necessary. Protection includes not allowing outside sources to mess up the bond too