“Before you slide into my DM, please I love JESUS and i live my days trying to be like Him. I don’t believe in SEX before marriage, I believe in DECENCY and I don’t believe in dating for fun. 🙏🏾”
As you are looking for a career driven and ambitious babe, I hope you are ready to deal with what comes it? Career driven is not by mouth please.
There are deadlines and deliverables to meet, several meetings to attend, most times always on laptop working, speaking engagements, have different businesses and side hustles aside from 9-5.
So if you want a corporate babe you have to come correct, real ones don’t even have time for games or those sneaky nonsense because where is even time😂
While I was serving, my parents called me one day and said that immediately after I left the village during Christmas, one of their family friends came visiting with his friend who lived in the USA.
Apparently, the man saw my pictures and liked me.
My parents gave him my number, and we started talking.
After a while, he said he wanted us to meet. I had to travel from where I was serving to a nearby state just to see him. The funny thing is, I didn’t ask him for transport fare, food, or anything. We simply met at a mall, sat down, talked, and I left.
Later, he messaged me saying he was impressed that I didn’t ask him for money. According to him, that wasn’t what he had been experiencing since arriving in Nigeria.
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Around last year March, I went completely broke infact looking at me you will think I was mad.
I invested all my money into Facebook ads but my account was banned so all the money was gone and someone like me hates begging not because I don't have people to ask for money but because begging or asking for something is difficult for me.
What did I do, I looked for a job in a restaurant. I was given the role of assistant chef and was placed on 50k monthly salary.. This is someone who used to make at least 200k monthly ooo I had to bring my pride down for it.
I worked there for 5 months and before the month ends our salary that will be paid is already finished cause we usually collect provisions on credit and a part from that the work is stressful, you will come by 9 and close when customers stop coming sometimes 12, 1, 2 midnight. On the 5th month I said fvck it.
After collecting my 5th month salary, I paid everyone I was owing and left the company with 30k and that was around September.
I used 15k from the 30k to buy proxy and foreign number and focused fully on my surveys cause I have the knowledge already just funds is what stopped me, then used 7600 to subscribe for X blue tick for one month. I then managed the rest money.
For that month I was focused and before that month run out I made over $150 from surveys, grew my account from 0-300 followers from scratch.
Between that September to now... I turned from someone in the first picture frame to the person in the second picture frame within few months.
Currently I make at least 400k monthly from surveys alone let's not talk about other sources of income I have.
Imagine I didn't summon the courage to leave and was afraid of what will happen to me I won't be here today.
Am not saying you should quit your job ooo but rethink sha.
Last year, I almost lost my wife to preeclampsia during pregnancy.
In fact, last year was the first time I ever heard the word "preeclampsia."
My wife was six months pregnant when doctors discovered that both her life and the baby's life were at risk.
What followed was one of the most difficult periods of our lives.
The hospital we were using in Gwarimpa referred us to the Federal Medical Centre in Jabi.
When we got there, they explained that they did not have enough ICU capacity for a premature baby and referred us to the National Hospital, Abuja.
I immediately drove her there.
Unfortunately, part of their ICU was under maintenance and had already been fumigated.
The remaining units were full, so they could not take us.
Again, they referred us to Garki Hospital, Abuja.
By this time, my wife's condition was getting worse.
Her eyes were swollen.
Her legs were swollen.
Her face had become so swollen that she barely looked like herself.
She was exhausted, dizzy, frightened, and in pain.
Yet I kept telling her everything would be fine, even though deep down, I was terrified.
At Garki Hospital, after reviewing the scan results and referral notes, they told us the case was too critical for them to handle.
Imagine driving from one hospital to another with a pregnant woman whose life was in danger, while every hospital kept referring you elsewhere.
The most painful part was that none of the hospitals could arranged an ambulance despite seeing her in a critical condition.
I was driving and making endless phone calls, speaking with doctors that I know, speaking with friends, and anyone who could point us in the right direction.
Finally, someone suggested the Teaching Hospital in Gwagwalada.
That was our last stop and that was where we found hope.
The doctors and nurses there fought with everything they had to safe her live.
At the same time they tried to buy time and help the baby's lungs mature enough to survive after delivery or if delivered safely.
They did everything possible.
Sadly, it wasn't enough.
The injections used to accelerate the baby's lung development took a serious toll on my wife's health.
Eventually, I was asked to sign documents acknowledging any possible outcomes.
She was also prepared to go for CS.
I signed.
To this day, I can still remember that moment.
My mind was racing.
My hands were shaking.
I was preparing myself for outcomes no husband ever wants to face.
By the mercy of Allah and the dedication of the medical team she had a normal delivery and my wife's life was saved.
(But we lost our baby girl 😭 😭 😭)
There are pains that never completely leave you.
Losing a child is one of them.
Still, I remain grateful.
Grateful that my wife survived.
Grateful to the doctors and nurses at the Teaching Hospital in Gwagwalada.
They are among the finest medical professionals I have ever encountered.
And grateful to Allah for carrying us through one of the darkest moments of our lives.
Two days ago 13th of June 2026, Allah bless my family with a male child….. Alhamdulillah. 😊
Today, as I look at everything my wife endured, I have even more respect for mothers and pregnant women.
The strength they carry is beyond words.
To everyone trusting God for the fruit of the womb, may He answer your prayers.
To every pregnant woman, may Allah grant you a safe pregnancy, a safe delivery, and a healthy child.
Ameen. 🤲
This morning, our church hosted a wedding. The groom is 42, the bride is 36; they'd been dating for three years. He'd traveled abroad, did well for a while, then came back to Nigeria with nothing left. Through all of it, she stayed.
Our pastor told them to stop waiting and settle down. So they had a mini wedding during today's service.
Then he announced that everything realised in church today would go to the couple.
Before he even finished talking, people were already coming forward with more.
By the end, the couple walked away with ₦2.3 million, two years' rent paid, and six new outfits each.🥰❤️
I went to his place, and I cooked white rice cos he had some stew in his freezer, brought it out and there was one meat in it. So I told him there’s just one meat left but it’s in your food, I guess I just wanted to see what he’ll do, he ate it all. Everything, and this is someone that comes to my house and I bring out a fresh batch of goat meat in the freezer. Any way, I felt somehow, meat isn’t my problem; I had soup in my own house and I never cook without both meat and fish, it was just the lack of sensibility of it all.
So I decided to go to bed, he stayed up and I was awoken around 2am in the morning to him watching Andrew Tate on YouTube on a very very loud volume about masculinity. Till date, any time I remember I dated this person, I recoil to myself, last time I ever looked an Igbo man twice! I didn’t break up, I just stopped taking his calls and responding to his messages, he called and called, his brother called, he even tagged me to a post here and I untangled myself. Tufia!!!
We paid ₦1.2 million rent in our compound.
For years, nobody complained because we thought that was the normal price in the area.
One day, the landlord unexpectedly visited the compound, and the man nearly fainted.
He started asking tenants how much we were paying.
Each person said ₦1.2 million.
The landlord looked confused.
"What do you mean ₦1.2 million?" The landlord said, with a look that'd make you pity him.
Turns out the caretaker had been collecting ₦1.2 million from every tenant and remitting only ₦500,000 to the landlord.
Now the landlord is saying he's not responsible for our missing ₦700,000 those past years. The caretaker is also denying everything.
Major cheat code for life: Leave people better than you found them. A kind word. A thoughtful question. A small encouragement. A little more belief than they had before. You never know which sentence becomes the one someone carries for years.
Color theory is real. Trust me.
Wear red next time you see your ex, baby pink on your next first date, wear white after an argument, pastel orange for making new friends, deep blue for ensuring trust, and black for power and authority.
I have always wanted a girls’ Creative Bible and guess what? 🥹
I finally got one as a birthday gift. All the way from Lagos to Abuja. 🤍
I don’t know how to explain it, but my Bible study has been so much better this past week.
The illustrations, the layout, how easy it is to read…what a kini!
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1. NOGIC JQS by NCDMB ( Still the most important industry database for Nigerian oil and gas that source candidates from the platform)
2. SPE Nigeria Council
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This is a free advise you didn’t pay for🙂