@goodlucksofea Aku dulu kerja kedai makan almost hari2 nasi bujang kak. Sekali sekala je berani nak mintak nasi goreng, air pon minum air kosong je di offer minum air sedap baru aku terima
I baru terbaca ni tadi and I rasa penting untuk kita tahu:
Kalau kita ni jenis mudah terasa, suka menyendiri bila stres, ada sifat perfectionist tapi at the same time selalu tangguh kerja.
Maybe ada kaitan dengan pengalaman emosi kita dari kecik.
Contohnya:
Aku geramlah, cina tak boleh cakap bahasa inggeris ni aku tak kisah sgt ni bahasa melayu pun tak faham. Pdhl ada ic biru. Aku emo siot lelama. Drain energy aku nak explain dekat engko arahan simple je pun ya tuhan
Betul patut nya dah boleh satukan je sekali. Jd nya takde la masalah dah beso pergi mana mana tak reti cakap bahasa melayu. Ic biru tapi tak reti ckp bahasa melayu aku cam "awak ni lahir sini ke?"
@twitmarhaen Baru 2 hari lepas sembang dengan suami isu ni, kenapa lah perlu waujudnya sjkc & sjkt ni. Sepatutnya satukan sahaja semua pelajar dalm sekolah kebangsaan, BM jd bahasa pertuturan & mandarin & tamil jadi bahasa optional kat sk. Baru lah generasi akan dtg ada perpaduan
Ingatkan smlm kita tinggal kan dia nak g klinik sendiri apa dia balik mkn la nasi dgn sup kita dah masak. Eh kita balik kerja makin panas bdn bapak kita, dah paksa makan nasi makan ubat. Baru ok sikit tu pon panas lagi bdn,dgn tak stable je aku tgok dia masuk bilik air risau la🫠
Kenapa demam selalu datang waktu malam dan perlu ke makan ubat?
Pernah tak siang rasa sihat saja, tapi bila malam tiba badan tiba-tiba panas, kepala berat, menggigil sampai susah nak tidur?
Kenapa ya, demam ni macam “tunggu malam”?
Thread.
Marriage isn’t about 50:50. It’s not about 100:0 either.
Yesterday I wasn’t feeling well. Husb bought us dinner from pasar malam and fed me medicine while I was in bed. He ironed the clothes for us and the kids, did the laundry and washed the dishes.
Today, he went to bed early. Just after Isyak, he dozed off. I could see how exhausted he was. So I took care of the rest of the house chores, ironing the clothes, doing the laundry and washing the dishes.
You see, yesterday, it was 30:70. And today, it’s 70:30. The ratio is never fixed. Sometimes it’s 55:45. Sometimes it’s 60:40. Depends on day. Sometimes it even got to 43.8:56.2
Marriage is about partnership. It’s about complementing and backing each other up. You can’t define it by an exact ratio. As long as both respect each other, understand partnership and responsibility, they’ll make it, insyaAllah.