@tiredfeminist_ Absolutely, it gets dodgey though when you block the father from being a present dad just because you stayed. Unfortunately there is a lot wrong with you a wife who has decided to stay.
@Mathapelo_Matz To be fair, Lesiba didn’t make it hard for her to choose herself. Imagine going mia as soon as the cameras go off… there was absolutely nothing there for her to lie to herself about, the signs were too obvious that she would be setting herself up for failure.
Decenter your age. You can change careers at 35, fall in love at 40, start a business at 45, or completely reinvent yourself at 50. Your life does not have an expiration date.
i was never a leaver. when i love, i stay. i fight, i try, i give everything i can. i don't walk away just because things get hard, and i don't disappear when feelings get real. i've always been the type who holds on, not the one who lets someone go. if i stepped back, it wasn't because i wanted to leave. it was because i had no place left to stay. and even then, it wasn't easy. letting go never felt like relief, it felt like losing a part of myself.
Women are more brutal when it comes to breakups and moving on. But they sure give you tons of chances and grace to fix up or step up. They set a deadline mentally. And when they reach that deadline they leave. They checkout and show you the brutal side of them.
a maior lição que eu aprendi esse ano é que a gente
NUNCA, em hipótese alguma, deve esperar que as pessoas tenham a mesma consideração, e amor que a gente. tem por elas.