Please just apologize to your partner when you know you messed up bruh... All that manipulative behavior and getting mad at them for being upset when they have a valid reason is just weird. People love to say they're grown until it's time to take accountability.
I've come to the conclusion that:
If you're an actual smart person - to find love and stay in love, you need to consciously relegate rational thinking.
Love thrives at the highest frequency of compromise and sacrifice -
at that frequency, logic cannot ALWAYS mutually coexist.
Anyway, niggas this is why you bottle. If you must rant or express those particular type of feelings, do it over green bottles with people in similar shoes, not podcasts or the internet.
Being a man today might be one of the hardest jobs in the world. The expectations placed on men often contradict themselves in ways that should leave any sane man completely confused.
A 🧵
Most women don’t wear makeup for themselves. They wear it to manipulate perception, compete with other women, and appeal to the male gaze. The irony? Men usually prefer a natural face and other women are the ones who actually notice the details.
You can’t be a woman who only values a man when you need his strength, protection or resources. True respect means appreciating him in peace, not just depending on him in times of crisis.
Young King,
You need to be liquid. Cash is king. You will be able to seize more opportunities when cash is readily available.
Having access to cash is important.
Society says, “Happy wife, happy life,” encouraging men to sacrifice, while women are advised to “do what’s right for you.” This double standard creates an imbalance. A healthy relationship values the happiness and well-being of both partners equally.
Men,
Please indicate your needs with evidence in the comments. I'm not sure how far the money will go but we will see. If anyone wants to support, please pick up a bill in the comments.
Office, remote or hybrid work options, outcomes will remain the same, if leadership competencies are out of tune with the Now of Work.
Businesses want great results from today’s talent but we are still leading them with dinosaur orientation.
Won’t happen.
First things first.
Outside Nigeria, no one sees you as Igbo, Hausa, or Yoruba. Outside Nigeria, everyone sees you as a Nigerian. Outside Nigeria, we are equally fucked regardless of our tribe or religion. The tribal superiority ends in Nigeria and on Twitter.
We need to fix Nigeria as Nigerians.
First be Ready.
Avoid being promoted beyond your technical depth. It often leads to frustration.
Don’t arrive ahead of your level of competencies.
Don’t attempt to succeed too soon. Grow organically.
Opportunities always meet preparedness.
First things first.