& actually its romantic and intimate to have someone in ur life who wants u to eat, who reminds u to eat, who treats u to snacks bc they want u to be happy and full way more than they would ever care about u keeping thin, i think wanting someone to take care of themselves and eat without shame or fear for their appearance is like the worlds closest thing to unconditional love
sorry I always felt undesirable my entire life and it gave me k!nks of wanting someone to desire me so extremely it's uncontrollable for them as if that's my fault
As a man, I strongly recommend only dating women who proactively like you in your most natural state, without you having to prove or do anything spectacular.