Let me repeat.
If your wife is accusing you of cheating on her, snooping on your phone, & yet she hasn't found anything.
Your wife has cheated on you, or she's cheating or planning to cheat on you.
Women will always look for avenues to make themselves feel "good".
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Dear young men,
If you ask a lady out & she tells you that she has a boyfriend but it's "complicated", & that both of you should see how it goes.
Accept her offer, keep fucking her but continue to look for your girlfriend.
When you find your girlfriend, tell her bye bye.
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@BriyaiJames@Ikpeme_Ebiti@afrisagacity Do you think it's easy for her to navigate life with those trauma and tantrums?
I hope she never meets someone like me, cause I will vet her thoroughly. Her past matters alot now.. 😔😂😂
After reading so much from the DMs of today.
Let me pass a few words to young men.
1) a woman that's your agemate is "wiser" than you.
2) when you fall in love, don't fall for love.
3) for the umpteenth time, stop spending money unnecessarily for women.
4) stop being a Mr.
Dear young men,
Especially those of you between the ages of 27-33 and are still single.
This is how you know that you may have found your wife:
1. She's highly interested in what you do legitimately for a living, actively trying to encourage you to build your career or business, and always looking out for other opportunities for you.
2. If you live alone, she takes initiatives without being told by observing your home and trying to buy things she knows you need to live a better life in preparation for marriage.
3. She will hardly ask you for money, not because she doesn't need it, but because it's easy for her to get money from other men. And she knows that taking money from other men is an "invitation to treat", and can destroy her relationship with you. And she wouldn't want to make you feel that she's with you for your money, too.
4. When you give her money to do certain things, either for you or for her, she'll try to give you an account of how she spent the money.
5. She keeps boundaries with your friends and doesn't try to compare you with them. Rather, she would look out for that friend whom she observes has your best interests at heart, and encourage you to stay close to him.
6. She will not use sex as a weapon in the relationship, neither would she use it as a bargaining chip.
7. She actively gives you updates on how her day went, and she doesn't come to your house with her phone on silent mode or airplane mode.
8. She will try to abide by how you like her to dress, and she'll listen to you when you caution her about certain behavior that you do not like.
9. She'll actively want you to know her siblings and show interest in and respect for your siblings as well.
10. She'll not hold back if you ask her to lend you money, if she has it. But you, the man, must keep to your words when paying her back.
11. She'll bend many rules for you, but you should not take undue advantage of it.
12. She'll stress you sometimes, and test you in as many ways as possible. She's doing all that to see how well you can lead her, and how well you can control your emotions or anger.
13. She'll make mistakes. But you should use it as a teaching moment for her. If you don't judge her too harshly, she'll start to listen to you more. When you make a woman trust you with her vulnerability, she'll overlook some of your excesses.
14. She'll actively seek your validation and yours alone; whatever you say is good for her, she will accept it. And she won't care what the world says or feels about her.
15. She will not force you to be religious, but she will actively observe whether you respect God, because a man without God may not be a good leader.
If you have a lady that can do at least 10 out of the 15, you may have found your wife.
And remember, when you choose your wife, you have chosen your destiny.
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@EzekielOluwada6@jon_d_doee The article says, "severe yeast infection".. I think it's an infection that's incurable, or that has not been properly ascertained...🤔
This is for the husband who leaves home before sunrise…
The wife stretching the small family budget until next payday…
The single parent pretending everything is okay…while carrying alone the burden meant for two people.
The father who quietly skips buying something for himself so the children won’t go without…
The mother who eats last after making sure everyone else has eaten.
I hope one day your children will understand what those ordinary days really cost you.
The sleepless nights.
The silent worries.
The sacrifices nobody applauded.
Please don’t measure your worth only by what is still missing.
Sometimes, the greatest gift you give your family isn’t a bigger house or a newer car.
It’s the certainty that, no matter how hard life became…You never stopped showing up.
If that’s you today, keep going.
Your family may not fully understand your sacrifices now.
One day, they will.
See you on top ❤️
I saw a video where a woman said that the reason some married women are still in their marriage is because they don't have money.
And that if they have as low as N1m, they'll leave their marriage.
My wife has millions of naira in her investment and I pay her monthly salary and she doesn't work outside of our home.
And she's still humble, respectful and submissive.
Na those of una wey marry women from poor homes or wey use money impress una women before marriage the woman dey talk to.
And she's right.
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Before you get married as a man:
1) be prepared to provide for your wife and children as much as you're able & as long as you're healthy & your kids are still dependent.
2) know that your wife must not love you and she doesn't have to love you.
3) know that what your wife owes
You'll see the other side of the woman you thought you have ever known, the day you catch her cheating on you.
She will react like a dangerous dove.
But you've invoked the spirit of vengeance in her because to her, she has always been the "sweetest" soul.
It's much better for
My former neighbor sponsored his wife’s education. He bought her a car and took good care of her.
One time, my younger brother overheard her on the phone talking with a man. She hid behind the window while receiving the call.
"If I handle your dick eeh, you go confirm."
I believe my former neighbor later found out about her behavior, so he started punishing her.
He seized her car keys and stopped her from coming to his shop at Lagos island.
They moved out about 2 years later.
I bumped into him one time and saw that he was looking seriously ill.
He died in 2024.
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Using men for free meals isn’t “soft life.” It’s broke girl behavior.
If you don’t want him, don’t waste his time just because you’re hungry. Buy your own food and let somebody who’s actually interested have the date.💯
One of the ways that you show love to your wife is by paying her back the debt which you owe her.
When it comes to finances in the home, your wife is naturally not supposed to participate in it.
But we know the economy is tough and women also work and earn.
You as a man and her husband should not let that stop you from doing what you're naturally supposed to do.
If you can't pay her all of it, pay in parts.
Always have at the back of your mind that you're more likely to die before your wife.
And when you're gone, your wife will take over, raise your children, and handle the finances. Even if you die without any tangible estate or inheritance.
She will not follow you to the grave, and life must go on.
If your wife earns money, be grateful to God for that, because you can always rely on her when you're down financially.
Relying on your wife is not the same as depending on your wife for survival.
However, you don't allow it to get to your head.
If you relax because your wife is helping you financially, sooner or later, you may see disrespect and possible cheating.
Because according to you, both of you are one.
Yes, you're one but both of you have different roles to play in the marriage.
She cannot be playing her roles and playing yours as well and you expect her to be happy.
Pay your wife the debt you owe her, and maintain your respect and submission.
Do all you can to preserve your source of livelihood and don't take unnecessary risks simply because you think your wife got your back.
And the truth is, you'll always owe your wife.
Even when you die.
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