The older I get, the more I understand why people disappear into gardening, baking, reading, and long walks. Not because life got boring. Because peace became valuable.
Please date someone who actually wants to experience life with you. Not just dinner & sex. I’m taking Museums, cooking classes, festivals, pottery, concerts, bookstores, road trips, random adventures.. EVERYTHING.
Whatever you do, pray for the ability to see your own sins, your own hypocrisy, and your own shortcomings. Never lose sight of that, never get so carried away pointing fingers that you forget you too have abscesses that need tending
She’s in her quiet era. Whatever happens, happens. She doesn’t have much to say anymore. She’s learned to accept things for what they are, let go of what she can’t control, and keep moving forward. It is what it is, and life goes on.
Kehilangan spark itu nggak selalu gara-gara pasangan. Kadang kerjaan, rutinitas, lingkungan, masalah keluarga, atau terlalu lama jadi “orang yang harus kuat” juga bisa bikin kita pelan-pelan mati rasa.
Sampai suatu hari bukan sedih, bukan juga bahagia. Cuma… yaudah kayak Nggak excited sama apa-apa. Mungkin yang kita butuhkan bukan orang baru buat bikin hidup berwarna lagi, tapi waktu buat ketemu diri sendiri yang dulu pernah seseru itu.