things men slowly learn as they grow older:
- no woman loves you for who you are, she only loves you for what you can do for her
- nobody is coming to save you
- discipline beats motivation
- money solves many problems
- silence is better than arguing
- nobody cares until you are rich or dead
- respect is earned, not begged for
- no woman is ever yours
- you can do everything right and still lose
- your colleagues are not your friends
life gets easier when you accept these truths